Showing posts with label Dave Pelzer. Show all posts
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Tuesday, 2 June 2015

Book Review: Dave Pelzer: A Man Named Dave

A Man Named Dave


























Author: Dave Pelzer
Title: A Man Named Dave
Genre: Biography, Child Abuse, Tragic Life Stories, Nonfiction, Autobiography, Memoir. Health & Family and Lifestyle, Families and Parents, Social and Health Issues,

I bought this book along with a child called it and the lost boy.

To the lady, who gave her all to make me the man l am today, my lovely bride, my best friend, mrs Marsha Pelzer, you make me whole and will forever be my princess.

To my son, Stephen, I can never tell you how precious you are and how much you have changed my life for the better, everything I do, I do for you.

This book has 243 pages and 25 chapters in it.
I would tell people that you should step outside your comfort zone with books because it is good to add more authors and genres to your reading portfolio. Even if you do not read books like this.


I normally read books of this genre but l also stepped outside my comfort zone with authors and genres l am so glad l did because l have read so many great books and come across some great authors.

I highly recommend this book but l would tell people to read a child called it and the lost boy aswell so you know the full story not just half.

Synopsis: As a child, Dave Pelzer was horrifically abused by his mother, who considered him to be an 'it', not a child. But he survived and lived to tell his courageous story... Haunted by memories of his years bruised and cowering in his mother's basement, his life remained a struggle – but he was determined to make something of himself. Dave's dramatic reunion with his dying father and a shocking confrontation with his mother led to his ultimate calling: mentor to others struggling with personal hardship. From a difficult marriage to the birth of his son and an enduring friendship, Dave was finally able to break free from his past, to trust, to love and to live.


Review: I found this book really easy to get in to and harder to put down once l started reading it. I loved reading all of Dave's 3 books but I was sadden that any mother could do that to her child and she even said he had a mental illness to try get him locked up and tried to get his father to sign the papers and it was sad to read that Dave got a reunion with his father but he was on his death bed but Dave has done really well to survive and move on from the past and child abuse at the hands of the women that is suppose to love him not beat him nearly to death. Dave has one son Stephen and he was married to his son's mother sadly the marriage did not work but Dave is always there for his son. Thankfully he met a women he wanted to spend the rest of his live with and she helped him forget the past and his mother sounds like she wants to ruin his life no matter what and l do not know why she can not leave him alone to get on with his life after she nearly killed him. This book was a great read. Dave was finally forgetting the pain from his past and trying to make a life for himself, his wife and his son. Dave sounds like he is a great dad to his son. I can not put in to words how great this book is I would tell people to read it for themselves to know how great it really is and it is a must read and a must have on any bookshelf. I am so glad l read all 3 because this is a great story and l was very happy to read Dave survived the abuses and told the world about it in his books.

About The Author: An author best known for his 1995 memoir of childhood abuse, A child called it. At the age of 12, dave was removed from an abusive home and placed in a series of foster homes. In 1979, he joined the air force and later became an author of memoirs and self-improvement books. #1 New York times best seller list and #1 international best selling author recipient of the national Jefferson award in a word, Dave pelzer embodies esprit: spirit, humor & wit. As a child his resilience enabled him to overcome extreme life-threatening obstacles. As an adult, for over 25 years, Dave's inspirational work has encouraged countless organizations and millions of individuals to recommit their efforts and remain steadfast to their personal convictions. Dave has experienced a truly extraordinary life. He nearly died several times by the hands of his mentally disturbed alcoholic mother. Years later it was determined that Dave's case was identified as on of the most gruesome and extreme cases of child abuse in california's then history. Dave was determined to better himself – no matter what the odds. As a member of the armed forces, dave was hand-picked to midair refuel the highly secretive SR-71 blackbird and the F-117 steath fighter, which played a major role in operations just cause, desert shield and desert storm. While serving on active duty and maintaining a rigorous flight schedule, dave made time to give of himself. in 1990, dave was the recipient of the JC penny golden rule award, making him the california volunteer of the year.Some of Dave’s distinctive accomplishments have been recognized through a number of prestigious awards, as well as personal commendations from Presidents Reagan, Bush, Clinton and George W. Bush. In 1993, Dave was honored as one of the Ten Outstanding Young Americans. He joins a distinguished group including: John F. Kennedy, Anne Bancroft and Christopher Reeves. In 1994, Dave was the only American to be honored
as The Outstanding Young Person of the World! In 1996, he carried the coveted Centennial flame for the Olympic Games. Dave was paid tribute as the recipient of the 2005 National Jefferson Award. Other alumni of this award include Colin Powell, Sandra Day O’Connor and Bob Hope.Dave is the author of seven inspirational books. Dave’s latest book, Moving Forward deals with helping people take the lead in their lives. Dave’s first book, A Child Called “It”, was on the New York Times Best Sellers List for over 6 years and Dave’s books have been on the same Best Sellers List approaching 13 years combined. As an author Dave is the first to have four # 1 International Best Sellers and to have four books simultaneously on the New York Times Best Sellers List.Dave is a living testament of a self-made man, who as an optimist strongly exudes resilience, service to mankind, personal responsibility and faith in humanity. Dave’s unique and intriguing outlook on life, coupled with his “Robin Williams” like wit and sense of humor entertain and encourage all of us to truly commit to overcome any challenge, while living life to its fullest.For over two decades, Dave has dedicated his life helping others . . . to help themselves. While many make excuses and seem pessimistic, Dave carries the banner in a nation where opportunities are endless in what he calls “The Greatness of America”. And through his work, you will too.

About The Book: I really like the book cover and the colour of the cover.


Star Rating: Five Out Of Five Stars.















Monday, 1 June 2015

Book Review: Dave Pelzer: The Lost Boy

The Lost Boy


























Author: Dave Pelzer
Title: The Lost Boy
Genre: Biography, Child Abuse, Tragic Life Stories, Social & Health Issues, Family & lifestyle, Biographies & memoir, Autobiography, Family Relationships.

I bought this book along with a child called it and a man named dave.

Book Dedication: To all the teachers and staff who rescued me,
Steven Ziegler.
Athens Constant.
Joyce Woods.
Betty Howell.
Peter Hansen.
The school nurse of Thomas edison elementary school and the daly city police officer.

To the angel social services
Ms Pamela Gold.
To my foster parents:
aunt Mary.
Rudy and Lilian Catanze.
Michael and Joanne Nulls.
Jody and Vera Jones.
John and Linda Welsh.

To those with a firm but gentle guiding hand
Gordon Hutchenson.
Carl Michael.
Estelle O'Ryan.
Dennis Tapley.

To friends and mentors
David Howard.
Paul Brazell.
Sandy Marsh.
Michael A. Marsh.

In memory of Pamela Eby, who gave her life to saving the children of Florida. 

To my parents, who always knew Harold and Alice Turnbough.

And finally, to my son, Stephen, whose unconditional love for who l am and what l do keeps me going. I love you with all my heart and soul.

Bless you all, for it takes a community to save a child.

This book has 352 pages and 19 chapters in it.

I would tell people that you should step outside your comfort zone with books because it is good to add more authors and genres to your reading portfolio. Even if you do not read books like this.

I normally read books of this genre but l also stepped outside my comfort zone with authors and genres l am so glad l did because l have read so many great book and come across some great authors.

I highly recommend this book but l would tell people to buy a child called it and a man named Dave so you can read the full story not just half of it.

Synopsis: As a child, Dave Pelzer never had a real home, rescued from an alcoholic, abusive mother: his only possessions were the old torn clothes he carried in a paper bag: the only world he knew was one of isolation and fear. In the lost boy Dave pelzer relives his life as a foster child, in and out of five different homes. There were those who felt that all foster kids were trouble – unworthy of love – and resented his presence, forcing him to suffer yet more shame. But though it all Dave never stopped hoping and searching for the love of a real family. This book is the follow on to a child called it and Dave is still looking for the loving home he dreams of but it still has not come along yet. Dave finally finds a house filled with love and a nice couple who foster children and Dave finds his father who tells Dave that his mother been on at him to sign some papers and Dave did not know what the papers he was on about. Lilian told Dave his mother is trying to get his father to sign papers signed to put him in an institution and Lilian asked Dave if David's father had signed the papers and David said no. His mother said David had a mental illness and she wanted him locked up.


Review: I was happy to carrying on reading about Dave as l have read a child called it. This is the follow on to it. I found this book really easy to get in to and hard to put down once l had started reading it. I was happy to read Dave had found a better life for himself but his mother is still trying to destroy his life even though he does not live with her anymore. I think she should just leave him alone to get on with his life. I am glad his father did not sign the papers to have him locked up in an institution because he does not sound like he has a mental illness l think she is trying to say he does so she can say everything he is saying is lies. She can not wait to destroy his life for him because she does not have control of him anymore which l am glad she does not. Dave deserves better than his mother l am glad his father got away from her too. David has other plans for his life and he joins the air force and does something good and he has one son Stephen. David's mother sounds like a horrible women who does not deserve children. I am glad david did something with his life and did not let his mother win. David sounds like a great guy and father.


About The Author: An author best known for his 1995 memoir of childhood abuse, A child called it. At the age of 12, dave was removed from an abusive home and placed in a series of foster homes. In 1979, he joined the air force and later became an author of memoirs and self-improvement books. #1 New York times best seller list and #1 international best selling author recipient of the national Jefferson award in a word, Dave pelzer embodies esprit: spirit, humor & wit. As a child his resilience enabled him to overcome extreme life-threatening obstacles. As an adult, for over 25 years, Dave's inspirational work has encouraged countless organizations and millions of individuals to recommit their efforts and remain steadfast to their personal convictions. Dave has experienced a truly extraordinary life. He nearly died several times by the hands of his mentally disturbed alcoholic mother. Years later it was determined that Dave's case was identified as on of the most gruesome and extreme cases of child abuse in california's then history. Dave was determined to better himself – no matter what the odds. As a member of the armed forces, dave was hand-picked to midair refuel the highly secretive SR-71 blackbird and the F-117 steath fighter, which played a major role in operations just cause, desert shield and desert storm. While serving on active duty and maintaining a rigorous flight schedule, dave made time to give of himself. in 1990, dave was the recipient of the JC penny golden rule award, making him the california volunteer of the year.Some of Dave’s distinctive accomplishments have been recognized through a number of prestigious awards, as well as personal commendations from Presidents Reagan, Bush, Clinton and George W. Bush. In 1993, Dave was honored as one of the Ten Outstanding Young Americans. He joins a distinguished group including: John F. Kennedy, Anne Bancroft and Christopher Reeves. In 1994, Dave was the only American to be honored
as The Outstanding Young Person of the World! In 1996, he carried the coveted Centennial flame for the Olympic Games. Dave was paid tribute as the recipient of the 2005 National Jefferson Award. Other alumni of this award include Colin Powell, Sandra Day O’Connor and Bob Hope.Dave is the author of seven inspirational books. Dave’s latest book, Moving Forward deals with helping people take the lead in their lives. Dave’s first book, A Child Called “It”, was on the New York Times Best Sellers List for over 6 years and Dave’s books have been on the same Best Sellers List approaching 13 years combined. As an author Dave is the first to have four # 1 International Best Sellers and to have four books simultaneously on the New York Times Best Sellers List.Dave is a living testament of a self-made man, who as an optimist strongly exudes resilience, service to mankind, personal responsibility and faith in humanity. Dave’s unique and intriguing outlook on life, coupled with his “Robin Williams” like wit and sense of humor entertain and encourage all of us to truly commit to overcome any challenge, while living life to its fullest.For over two decades, Dave has dedicated his life helping others . . . to help themselves. While many make excuses and seem pessimistic, Dave carries the banner in a nation where opportunities are endless in what he calls “The Greatness of America”. And through his work, you will too.



About The Book: I really like the book cover and that it is black and white the cover is not too boring.





Star Rating: Five Out Of Five Stars.

Book Review: Dave Pelzer: A Child Called It

A Child Called It


























Author: Dave Pelzer
Title: A Child Called It
Genre: Nonfiction, Autobiography, Memoir, Phychology, Biography, Adult, Child Abuse, Family Relationship, Parenting & Relationship, Self-Help, Sociology, Politics & social sciences, Tragic Life Stories,

I bought this book along with the lost boy and a man named dave the follow on to this book.

I would tell people that you should step outside your comfort zone with books because it is good to add more authors and genres to your reading portfolio. Even if you do not read books like this.

I normally read books of this genre but l also stepped outside my comfort zone with authors and genres l am so glad l did because l have read so many great books and come across some great authors.

I highly recommend this book but l would tell people to read the lost boy then a man named dave so you can read the full story and what happens to dave.

Book Dedication: This book is dedicated to my son Stephen, who, by the grace of god, has taught me the gift of love and joy through the eyes of a child.

This book is also dedicated to the teachers and staff members of thomas edison elementary school to include:
Steven E. Ziegler
Athena Konstan
Peter Hansen
Joyce Woodworth
Janice Woods
Betty Howell
and the school nurse

To all of you, for your courage and for putting your careers on the line that fateful day, 5th march 1973 you saved my life.

This book has 184 pages and 16 chapters in it.

Synopsis: As a child dave pelzer was brutally beaten and starved by his emotionally unstable, alcoholic mother, a mother who played tortuous, unpredictable games that left one of her sons nearly dead. She no longer considered him a son, but a slave: no longer a boy, but an it. His bed was an old army cot in the basement, his clothes were torn and smelly, and when he was allowed the luxury of food it was scraps from the dog's bowl. The outside world knew nothing of the nightmare played out behind closed doors. Dave dreamed of finding a family to love him and call him their son. It took years of struggle, deprivation and despair to find his dream and make something of himself in the world. A child call 'it' covers the early years of his life and is an affecting and inspirational memoir of one child's determination to survive. This book is about one boy fight for life through child abuse at the hands of his mother who made him clean the full house and use to beat him and not give him food and she use to make him late for school and has to tell the school where the bruises come from and he says he fall but then he tells them what really happened and the social worker and police rescue him and her goes in to foster care where he finds love and he given food every day and does not get beaten.

Review: I found this book really easy to get in to and hard to put down once l started reading it and l found this book upsetting that any mother could do that to their own child. I wonder why she only did it to dave and not his brothers. His father did not beat dave just his mother did. Dave's father ended up leaving his mother and I wonder how he survived all the things that happened to him it is a miracle that he did. I think his brothers was scared of their mother after seeing what she did to dave. I can not put in to words how upsetting this book is and it is a good read and l was glad to read dave lived to tell his story and l wish l could rate this book more then five stars because it is worth more then five stars. I think dave was really brave speaking out about the abuse and writing his story in a book for people to read is also raising awareness for child abuse.

About The Author: An author best known for his 1995 memoir of childhood abuse, A child called it. At the age of 12, dave was removed from an abusive home and placed in a series of foster homes. In 1979, he joined the air force and later became an author of memoirs and self-improvement books. #1 New York times best seller list and #1 international best selling author recipient of the national Jefferson award in a word, Dave pelzer embodies esprit: spirit, humor & wit. As a child his resilience enabled him to overcome extreme life-threatening obstacles. As an adult, for over 25 years, Dave's inspirational work has encouraged countless organizations and millions of individuals to recommit their efforts and remain steadfast to their personal convictions. Dave has experienced a truly extraordinary life. He nearly died several times by the hands of his mentally disturbed alcoholic mother. Years later it was determined that Dave's case was identified as on of the most gruesome and extreme cases of child abuse in california's then history. Dave was determined to better himself – no matter what the odds. As a member of the armed forces, dave was hand-picked to midair refuel the highly secretive SR-71 blackbird and the F-117 steath fighter, which played a major role in operations just cause, desert shield and desert storm. While serving on active duty and maintaining a rigorous flight schedule, dave made time to give of himself. in 1990, dave was the recipient of the JC penny golden rule award, making him the california volunteer of the year.Some of Dave’s distinctive accomplishments have been recognized through a number of prestigious awards, as well as personal commendations from Presidents Reagan, Bush, Clinton and George W. Bush. In 1993, Dave was honored as one of the Ten Outstanding Young Americans. He joins a distinguished group including: John F. Kennedy, Anne Bancroft and Christopher Reeves. In 1994, Dave was the only American to be honored
as The Outstanding Young Person of the World! In 1996, he carried the coveted Centennial flame for the Olympic Games. Dave was paid tribute as the recipient of the 2005 National Jefferson Award. Other alumni of this award include Colin Powell, Sandra Day O’Connor and Bob Hope.Dave is the author of seven inspirational books. Dave’s latest book, Moving Forward deals with helping people take the lead in their lives. Dave’s first book, A Child Called “It”, was on the New York Times Best Sellers List for over 6 years and Dave’s books have been on the same Best Sellers List approaching 13 years combined. As an author Dave is the first to have four # 1 International Best Sellers and to have four books simultaneously on the New York Times Best Sellers List.Dave is a living testament of a self-made man, who as an optimist strongly exudes resilience, service to mankind, personal responsibility and faith in humanity. Dave’s unique and intriguing outlook on life, coupled with his “Robin Williams” like wit and sense of humor entertain and encourage all of us to truly commit to overcome any challenge, while living life to its fullest.For over two decades, Dave has dedicated his life helping others . . . to help themselves. While many make excuses and seem pessimistic, Dave carries the banner in a nation where opportunities are endless in what he calls “The Greatness of America”. And through his work, you will too.




About The Book:I like the book cover and I     
like that it is black and white.


Star Rating: Five Stars Out Of Five Stars